What can I do today

I find myself getting stuck wondering how to make my dreams come true. I tend to think I have to make it all happen all at once. And often those thoughts terrify me in to in action. In reality, something as small as finally getting new towels, or getting that hair cut you keep saying… Continue reading What can I do today



Every time I go with the consensus, I end up needing to course correct. It makes you think. Who defines normal? In my opinion it's those who are really unhappy with themselves because they are so busy worrying what others think that they have totally shut out their intuition. They are people inundated with "shoulds".… Continue reading Alignment

Down time

Today I took a break from studying and planning and doing and it was fantastic. I went thrift shopping, I went for a walk and I made plans with old friends. Why? Because I've had a few set backs this week and the next lesson in the course I'm studying wasn't available. The universe was… Continue reading Down time


Sometimes all it takes to change your perspective from blah to wow, is seeing something from a different view. I'm working on changing my perspective from spending to investing on stuff like groceries and unexpected home repairs. Honestly, it's helping. I've changed how I see my commute, chores and other less than awesome things. It… Continue reading Gratitude

Effort not Struggle

I saw this today and it struck home. When life seems the hardest, I tend to want to escape to "magic" to guide me. In most cases this is probably harmless. But it is also not helpful. It's disempowering. It directs my attention away from my inner guidance and focuses it on external information. Don't… Continue reading Effort not Struggle

Victim Mentality

This is my 120# German Shepherd terrified to go eat because the 10# siamese cat wouldn't move. This is victim mentality. You over exaggerate the problem and allow it to hold you back from what you need to do to make your life better. While victimhood does serve a purpose shortly after the trauma, it's… Continue reading Victim Mentality